The Best Things In Life Aren't Free
Though I enjoyed the distinct privilege of having a small part in her funeral service, I never had the honor of meeting Alta Hoffman. Nevertheless, let me introduce this unique person to you through an excerpt of an essay written by our friend Connie Bolton, one of her three daughters.
"Born the oldest of nine children in 1922, my mother had no remembrance of not working hard or not being someone's caregiver. That would be her life. In later years, when I took her to doctors for help with her many physical problems, their questions about her hobbies elicited only blank stares. While she did enjoy reading and occasionally dabbling at sewing projects, her "hobby" was--and forever had been--people.
"She and Daddy always lived in a small, humble house. Though for many this would have been a legitimate reason not to entertain, not so with Mother. Her joy was to have someone over for a good meal and a visit.
"She had a peculiar knack for finding people who needed encouragement: folks new in the area, those going through hard times, people with health problems. God alone knows how many friends and family members she faithfully prayed for over the years or how many problems she listened to. Even up to her last few days of life, she tried to find the obituaries in the paper to see who had passed away and inquired about how one person or another might be getting along.
"Despite declining health in her last few years, she still maintained a 'card ministry.' She believed in the importance of cards, letters and notes--and taught her children the same. Even now, if I delay in sending out a card, I can hear her promptings. 'You really need to get that note in the mail.' Many have told me of her faithfulness in sending multiple 'get well' cards during times of extended illness.
"Most of my conversations with my mother revolved around people: who was kin to whom, how she knew this one, or the problems of that one. Anyone introduced to Alta Hoffman was instantly considered her friend.
"It's a good feeling to know there is someone like Alta Hoffman thinking about us, praying for us, inquiring of our welfare, and encouraging others to do the same. The world is empty without heartfelt concern for others."
The best things in life aren't free. Sowing good works throughout her sphere of influence cost Alta Hoffman an entire lifetime. From behind the scenes, well out of the limelight of human praise, she labored to leave the distinct handprint of God's love on whomever she touched.
In this "me-first-I-want-my-rights" generation, our world needs more Alta Hoffmans. And I'd like to be one of them.
Copyright 2004 James McAlister
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